Things to change

Well... while I'm writing...

I need to change the fucking issues with Robin. She's been living off me since the separation, with no sign of that changing. She's simply content to make it look like she's doing something about it, then do nothing and wait to see if I'll give more money to keep her afloat. Also, the way she cares for Jacob sucks. Simply put... it fucking sucks. Any child that goes to tears at the thought of "going home" has some serious issues to work out.

I have started the changes in the last few days... she doesn't know yet how deeply things are going to change in the next month. Sometime VERY soon I'm going to finish the divorce. I say "I am going to" because she has no incentive to do a damn thing. I, however, and fucking sick of pussy-footing around.

So, I'm asking her for the information she says she has about selling the house, and taking her to task for a few things she's told Jacob. I'm going to look into actually getting the thing on the market in the next week, unless she can show me that she's really doing something.

She's told Jacob that she's looking into a refinance that will be low enough that she can afford the mortgage... which I believe is BULLSHIT. We'll see though... If she can't provide me some kind of information about that in the next few days, I'm going to have the damn house put on the market myself. She can live in whatever happy place she wants... but I'm not paying half the mortgage for a place I don't live, just so she can sponge off me for as long as possible... I've given enough to that marriage... it's over now, and the shit like that is going to end too.

It all just needs to CHANGE.